Those of you who know me already know, I love doing pictures, I am not always about fashion. Especially the monochrome pictures I love a lot.

Today I was in the mood for another one. And I think now I am in the right mood for a glas of wine and a good book out of that cage ღ



Pose & Prop: Reve Obscura – *!R.O!* Perceiving BENTO Pose w/ Mesh Wine Glass

Fireplace: Fancy Decor: Fireplace
Birdcage: brocante. – book birdcage
Shorts & Top: Apple May Designs – Shae @ Sad November
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Anda Heels

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Blow Your Mind (Mwah)

Sometimes I have so much going on in my head I don’t know what to write about. I’m trying to put my life back together right now, that’s first and foremost in my thoughts, making sure my children are happy and healthy after the abuse they suffered from a man they called dad. My trust in men is gone and the thought of ever dating or getting serious with anyone ever again just doesn’t seem possible. I have found out who my friends are, as he has I am sure since most of his friends have reached out to me and my daughter. People are appalled that a man they’ve known for x amount of years was truly a monster capable of sexually abusing and raping a 15-year-old girl. Some good things have come from this, I’ve moved home with my mother, I have a new car coming and it will be here today and although I haven’t found a job yet I am hopeful something good will come to me. I don’t spend a lot of time on Second Life, I take pictures for my blog and sometimes don’t write the post for a day or two. I meet my obligations but fixing my family is the most important thing to me right now.

ChicModa released this amazing top for Sad November which opened yesterday. There are 16 different colors of this top and is made for Maitreya and both Slink bodies. You can shop Sad November until December 2.
Top *new*ChicModa – Josie Sweater – Sad November
As soon as I saw this top I knew exactly what I wanted to pair it with, I headed on over to the November round of Collabor88 to pick up these amazing pants. Available from CandyDoll in 20 colors or a fatpack, the amazing laced cutouts on the hips of these pants really make them stand out, plus the wide flare leg is just awesome.
Pants *new*: CandyDoll – Rania Pants – Collabor88
You still have a few days to get over to the latest edition of The Epiphany and while you’re there you should really grab these amazing backdrops from Minimal. This set includes 1 rare and 5 commons, one common has 3 different colors and another has two different seasons, so in reality, you have a chance to win 8 commons.
Backdrop *new*Minimal – Vibe Backdrop 5 Autumn – The Epiphany 
Nantra does some fun bento poses and this set available right now at ULTRA Event is fashioned after the one and only Lady Gaga. This set comes with 5 poses plus mirrors and a shape made to fit the poses.
Pose *new*Nantra – Fame Monster 4 – Ultra
Hairology opened on November 10 and when I saw the ad for this RunAway hair I knew I had to go grab it. This hair comes with a style HUD for 4 options, standard and Omega hairbases and it is fitmesh, so that means it can’t be resized.
Hair *new*RunAway Hair – Nancy Essentials – Hairology

I was accepted to blog for Designer Showcase, a monthly event that has been around since 2011 and is still going strong. Each month amazing designers offer their creations exclusively to shoppers of this event. For this blog, I chose makeup from Dulce Secrest, a beautiful hairbase from Avada and awesome nail polish from Cazimi. Dulce Secrets has lipstick and eyeshadow sold separately and they’re only 99L a piece with 6 colors for each.
Makeup *new*: Dulce Secrets – Pretty Eyeshadow and Lipstick – Designer Showcase
This hairbase from Avada comes with system layers, Catwa, Omega and Lelutka appliers in 6 colors in parted and non-parted options. You can grab this beautiful hairbase for only 250L during Designer Showcase.
Hairbase *new*: Avada – Jerrika for Lelutka non-parted – Designer Showcase
Marketplace These nail polishes from Cazimi come in three different types, white tips, black tips, and multicolored. Created for Slink, Maitreya, and Belleza the colors are so much fun and there are 10 options per each color pack. Pick all three up during the event for only 99L each.
Nails *new*: Cazimi – Flair White Tipped – Designer Showcase
7 Deadly Skins is back at the eBento event with this gorgeous new skin. Madelon is available in blushing, browless, moles and plain skin options. There are 6 skin tones for each. I chose to pair the browless skin with eyebrows from okkbye.
Skin *new*7 Deadly Skins – Madelon Browless Dew – eBento
Eyebrowsokkbye – Adumbrate Eyebrows
I chose an older set of eyes from Mesange for this blog, Aspen was a special, five color set released several months ago but they are so pretty I had to share them again.
EyesMesange – Aspen
ShapeWest End – Coco for Lelutka May
My neck looked a little bare and so I decided to check out Noir and see if there was something there I didn’t have already and I found this gorgeous choker. Satine comes in two rigged sizes and an unrigged, resizeable version. The color change HUD includes 5 satin and two metal colors.
ChokerNoir Store – Satine Unrigged
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(Not so) Sad November

The darker time of the year starts up here in the northern hemisphere, and many people deal with moodswings, mostly it’s going south. I envy a little bit our friends in Australia, New Zealand and so on. For them it is Spring….

Yes I deal with those sad moods too. The lack of daylight, the grey and nasty weather outside.. but there are so many ways to lighten up your mood. I already talked a lot about music. Listen to happy songs. Uptempo. Avoid the sad “oh I am such a whiny guy” songs. And bring some color into your life.
Or just get comfy and enjoy that weather. Couch, a blanket, some hot chocolate and a good movie.
Or – combine it. Bring some color into your life while you get comfy – with your loved one maybe? I think I found a perfect example how to do it at Sad November, let me show you:



Pose & Props: GingerFish Poses – Cinema Verite box @ Sad November

Top and Pants: Apple May Designs – Shae – Pale Pink @ Sad November
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Anda Heels Lights Colors
Hair: TRUTH Cheri – Blonde

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Back to blogging?Back to blogging!

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For several months I was gone from the internet. In March my “box” broke, and due to some health issues it took some months for me to get it fixed by my provider and get back. Back on my feet, back to some kind of normal. Get back my life, and then at some point get back my internet.

When I finally got back, many things changed for me. And I had to change things to stay mentally sane. So not only did I drop a job I loved, I also dropped blogging. Deadlines turned out to be stress for me, and it actually “killed” my whole creativity. I had a feeling my photos got worse instead of better. So I decided to stop blogging.

The thing that is stable for so many years is the amazing friendship I have with Sassy Nitely, and I am fortunate and blessed to work with my bestie. And with the changes in that job, with the evolving of her brand, by sharing all the excitement we had with every new creation she did, my fun came back and my addiction to take pictures hit me again.

Now I decided to go back to blogging. With some changes. No sponsors. Less blogs, but those blogs I do will be done with fun :)

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Pose (both photos): FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set

Top: Vinyl – LIT Flannel Pak PINK @ Uber
Leggings: Blueberry – Cake – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – {Extra 8}
Boots: _CandyDoll_ Alaria Boots – Light Colors @ Uber
Hair: Stealthic – Jealousy (Blondes)
Rings: **RE** Luxy Rings Set 1.3
Nailpolish: {ZOZ} Bold II Natural Polish (Maitreya)

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This has not been the best weekend of my life, to say the least. My poor cat, who’s been sick for a while finally succumbed to his illness and passed, a group that I’ve blogged for over a year and a half did not re-accept me as a blogger and I came home to an empty propane tank. I’ve been trying to figure out my moves in life, what steps to take next and something keeps pushing back, just when I think I finally have a handle on things. Oh and I just discovered that my fridge may be on its last leg as well. All I can do is hold a smile or I will break and I will not let circumstances break me.

I have some really amazing items to share with you all on my blog today, so many I’m not even sure where to start. So, I suppose I will go top to bottom. First up today we have a brand new backdrop and pose set from Foxcity. I just absolutely adore Foxcity, she is so creative and fun with her poses and backdrops. These are currently available at Project Se7en. There are two pose sets and one backdrop to choose from. The poses can be purchased individually or as a fatpack but the fatpack comes with an exclusive pose, so in my opinion, the fatpack is the ONLY way to go. You have until October 30 to get to Se7en and take advantage of the amazing items there.

Pose (new)Foxcity – Lounge 5M Fatpack Exclusive with prop – Se7en

Backdrop (new)Foxcity – Photo Booth Lucky Lounge – Se7en


Black Fair – The Absence is now open and I have a lot of goodies to share with you from this stunning event. Black Fair runs from October 6 to the 20. Masoom is there with this halter and jacket set, they are sold separately but look so amazing together. Available in 15 colors each or in a fatpack that allows you to mix and match to your heart’s content.

Harness and Jacket (new)Masoom  – Jassica – Black Fair – The Absence 


Although not exclusive to the Black Fair, you can grab these shorts from Asteria’s booth, sexy and short they went perfectly with the jacket and harness.

Shorts:  – Mel Shorts Black – Black Fair – The Absence 

I missed out bringing you these amazing shoes from CandyDoll during Shoetopia, it closed yesterday October 9 sadly, but keep an eye out, I am sure you’ll be able to find them in the store and marketplace soon. I just love the fishnet body of these thigh-high heeled shoes, they are fabulous with a garter attachment that goes so well with lingerie and shorts. Available in individual colors or two fatpacks.

Shoes: CandyDoll – Carolina Heels Dark Colors


I love Stealthic, I have from the first moment I put Daughter on at the Hair Fair 2016 and although I was not chosen to blog for them anymore, I will still support this amazing creator. I love Hunter’s styles, he does just amazing hair. This stunning male hair was released at The Mens Department and comes with a style HUD including four styles as well as a toggle option.

Hair (new)Stealthic – Rebellion – The Mens Department


7 Deadly Skins is also at Black Fair with a brand new skin. Key is an Omega applier skin for face and body based on the LAQ Gaia head, it’s available in two tone packs each including 7 tones.

Skins (new)7 Deadly Skins – Key Dew – Black Fair – The Absence 


The main reason I had to visit Black Fair in the first place are these amazing mesh ears from Swallow, from the moment the WIP was posted I knew I had to have them. The options included with these ears will blow you away and I have to agree with Lucia, these are probably her best work to date. I am just in love with these ears and I may never take them off.

Ears (new)Swallow – Darkness Ears – Black Fair – The Absence 


While at Black Fair I decided to shop around and bit and found these amazing eyes from Zombie Suicide, they are fun and different, with a darker iris and sclera with a flash of light across them. The tones are just stunning and it is made for Catwa and Omega compatible eyes.

Eyes (new)Zombie Suicide – Evil Within – Black Fair – The Absence 


Blushes Boutique is still around and still producing amazing Catwa applier makeup for you, this lipstick palette includes 5 varying shades of pink for your pleasure.

LipstickBlushes Boutique – Lucy Lipstick





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A goal should scare you a little and excite you a lot

A goal should scare you a little and excite you a lot

Good Morning and TGIF everyone 🙂  Not much to say today so I am not going to ramble for the sake of rambling lol instead just going to wish you all a wonderful weekend and let you check out todays goodies I’m showing.

Have a great day everyone ♥


BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

HEAD:  .LeLutka.Head.Simone 3.0

EYES:  .LeLutka.Eyes.Simone 3.0

SKIN:  ItGirls – Lelutka Skin Applier – Ava Tan

HAIR:  Opale . Rene Hair

JACKET:  Azuchi+Vinyl Stevie Leather Jacket LARA

DRESS:  ISON – tight tee dress -maitreya- (black)

BOOTS:  _CD_ Cindy Boots Black

POSE:  :LW: Poses, The last of her kind


MI Neon Backdrop Red @ Limit8 (NEW)


[Kres] Say it Signs @ Kinky Event (NEW)

[Kres] Say it Signs – 02 RARE – Blogger

[Kres] Say it Signs – 06 – Blogger

[Kres] Say it Signs – 11 – Blogger

[Kres] Say it Signs – 13 – Blogger

[Kres] Say it Signs – 14 – Blogger

[Kres] Say it Signs – 16 – Blogger



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Don’t look for happiness, create it

Don't look for happiness, create it

Good Morning everyone,  it’s a grey rainy day in the UK today but most definately not in todays post,  I had so much fun making this one, actually makes me wish I was there in RL lol I’m not one for going in the sea on vacation but I love to be in the pool and would be in and out til dark if I could lol, in between cocktails on a sunlounger whilst reading a book, sounds perfect right.

I always find when blogging we are own worst critic and I will admit that since my break I haven’t been loving my posts, possibly because of the pressure I put on myself to get through as many requirements as I can as I hate to let people down and I am always the professional even when things in RL are not the best, but this post I feel is my turning point I really enjoyed making it and I actually like it too so yay for me 🙂

Todays goodies are an assortment from a few events,  The Home Show ends on 29th July which is just a few days away as does this round of Cosmopolitan so be sure to check them out quickly before they close.  As always below are full credits to mainstores and events.

Enjoy and have a great day everyone ♥



BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

HEAD:  .LeLutka.Head.Simone 2.7

EYES:  .LeLutka.Eyes.Simone 2.7

SKIN:  ItGirls – Lelutka Skin Applier – Ava Tan

HAIR:  /Wasabi Pills/ Plum Mesh Hair – Style 1

SWIMSUIT:  _CandyDoll_Kendall Swimsuit Maitreya White




CHEZ MOI:  Ice Cream Cart Blu

CHEZ MOI:  Syrup Bottle Strawberry

CHEZ MOI: Syrup Bottle Choco


{YD} Happy Swimming Pool @ Cosmopolitan (Ends 29th July)

{YD} Happy Swimming Pool – Flamingo Pink

{YD} Happy Swimming Pool – Flamingo Lilac


CHEZ MOI @ Limit8 (NEW)

Double Adirondack Chair Seashore (Adult) CHEZ MOI

Watermelon Tray CHEZ MOI

Windshield Malibu Linen CHEZ MOI


KraftWork Beach Burger Shack @ Knot & Co (NEW)


*** rojo *** Swimming Pool & Furniture SET @ The Home Show (End 29th July)

*** rojo *** Swimming Pool 3 pcs @

*** rojo *** Pool Set Umbrella Table white

*** rojo *** Pool Set Chair

*** rojo *** Pool Set – Cooler

*** rojo *** Pool Set Boombox Décor

*** rojo *** Pool Set Lounger (A)

*** rojo *** Float Bed w Group Anims 3 seats

*** rojo *** Pool Set Hamster Wheel Animated

*** rojo *** Pool Set Dino Float


::WetCat:: “Dive-In” Diving Board Prop @ Chapter Four (NEW)


Serenity Style– Iri Beach Hut @ Deco(c)rate July

Serenity Style- Iri Beach Hut –Shabby

Serenity Style- Iri Beach Hut –Blue

Serenity Style- Iri Beach  Hut –Pink


Serenity Style– Sunny Beach col

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Pier RARE

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Boat RARE

Serenity Style- Sunny Fisherman Bucket

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Board

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Rug

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Clotheline

Serenity Style- Sunny Beach Lamp

Serenity Style- Sunny Lifeguards


[m8] Tropical Flowers Rocks Arrangement Mesh TFR

[m9] Tropical Flowers Rocks Arrangement Mesh TRF





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Summer Split

You scream, I scream, we all scream Ice Cream. Am loving the cute 80’s events along with all the bright colors in other events as well.  I hope that everyone takes a little time this weekend to relax and enjoy life.

Body Pieces


Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

Skin: *YS&YS* Kitty Skin Applier for CATWA – April Powder Pack

Hair: #Foxy – Grind Hair (Natural Ombres) @ Kustom 9


Lashes: Wednesday[+] Everyday Eyelashes @ The Coven

Nails:Astralia – Moon Shine nails with HUD

Chest Marks: Nightmare :: Floral Chest Scars ***GROUP GIFT***


Rings: .::Supernatural::. Lila Gold @ Mesh Body Addicts~Thank You ♥

Bag: =Zenith=Monkey bag

Ice Cream: e.marie // Ice Cream Cone – Heart Strawberry @ Kustom 9

Earrings: [ bubble ] Pastel Rainbow Earrings  -RARE @ The Gacha Garden ~Thank You ♥

Bracelets: [ bubble ] Ring Set Gacha @ Fantasy Gacha Carnival~Thank You ♥


Shorts: erratic / carrie – denim shorts / blue (maitreya) @ Collabor88

Heels: Ingenue :: Sigrid Heels (Maitreya) :: Lilac ~Thank You ♥

Top: _CandyDoll_ Megan Top Lavender @ REWIND




FOXCITY. Dolls-4 (Alternate hand pose)

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*Random song of the day* ❤

Broke down, thought that I would drown
Hope that I’d be found, ‘fore I hit the ground
Some days out the corner of my eye, hey
Saw you weeping, saw you creeping, saw you sneaking
In the shadows long the fear so strong
Saw you out the corner of my eye

Don’t come for me today
I’m feeling good, let me savor it
Don’t come for me today
I’m feeling good and I remember when

You came to take me away
So close I was to heaven’s gates
But, no, baby, no, baby, not today
Oh, you tried to track me down
You followed me like the darkest cloud
But, no, baby, no, baby, not today (reaper)
Oh, reaper (reaper)
Oh, no, baby, no, baby, not today (reaper)
Oh, reaper (reaper)
Oh, no, baby, no, baby, not today

So come back when I’m good and old
I got drinks to drink, and men to hold
I got good things to do with my life, yeah
Oh, I wanna dance in the open breeze
Feel the wind in my hair, hear the ocean sing
I got good things to feel in my life, yeah

Don’t come for me today
I’m feeling good, let me savour it
Don’t come for me today
I’m feeling good, I remember when

You came to take me away
So close I was to heaven’s gates
But, no, baby, no, baby, not today
Oh, you tried to track me down
You followed me like the darkest cloud
But, no, baby, no, baby, not today (reaper)
Oh, reaper (reaper)
Oh, no, baby, no, baby, not today (reaper)
Oh, reaper
Oh, no, baby, no, baby, not today


Head: Catwa Catya Head
Body – Maitreya Lara 3.5
Skin: Lara Hurley Christy Rose Pale Catwa Applier, Fae Skin, and Body Freckles
Hair: Wasabi Pills  Blake @ Uber 

{Clothes and Accessories}
Jewelry: Earthstones All my love bridal
Top: CandyDoll Erika
Skirt: CandyDoll Riley  @ Kustom9
Shoes: Fri.Day Dana @ Kustom9 

{Pose and Lighting}
Pose and Lighting Enhanced with Lumipro 2017

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Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy

♫He was a famous trumpet man from out Chicago way
He had a boogie style that no one else could play
He was the top man at his craft
But then his number came up and he was gone with the draft
He’s in the army now, a-blowin’ reveille
He’s the boogie woogie bugle boy of Company B♫

Can you listen to this without wiggling and tapping with your foot? I just can’t. This song is old, but still soo good and defenitely one of my “good mood” songs. Whether I am sad or mad, this song puts me into a good mood in a few seconds


Pose & Prop: Image Essentials – Classic Caddy (b)
Image Essentials is making room in the store!
From Friday, March 24 till Sunday, April 2 Image Essentials will have a huge Retirement Sale! About 3/4 of the store is going on sale for only 25L. After the sale the poses will only be available through the Marketplace. Stay tuned for the LM!

Shoes: CandyDoll –  Anda Heels Lights Colors

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Hair: Doe: Aspen (twotone) – Gingers
Romper: CandyDoll –  Betty 50’s Nude

and my basics:
Head: Catwa Tumble
Head Applier: amara beauty – Tori 05 toffee Catwa Applier
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: amara beauty – maitreya applier v.2
Hands Applier: amara beauty – omega applier v.2 (body, hands & feet)

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